Monogram Etiquette
Few gifts are more memorable or special than customized presents -- these items take extra special thought and consideration, after all! Of the many ways one can transform an ordinary gift into an extraordinary one, the most meaningful and timeless are those with a personalized monogram.
Like anything else however, it is important to do your research and be prepared. Take it from our experienced team: knowing the fundamental "rules" before embossing cutting boards or embroidering beach towels is absolutely essential. Not only are time-honored traditional guidelines key to monogram etiquette, getting it right the first time will save time and money while taking your gift game to the next level.
Whether you've been customizing items with your initials for years or you're new to the whole process, here is what you need to know before taking the monogram plunge.
Monogram FAQs
What is a monogram?
Traditionally, a monogram is a means of using a person (or persons) initials to form an intricate logo. This design is then added to a variety of products through vinyl, embroidery or embossing. Most often used for decorative purposes, a monogram can be as simple or intricate as one wants while still offering a unique touch to an everyday item.
Typically the main components of a monogram include a specific set and ordering of initials that are varied in size and font style, with extra embellishments added according to one's personal preference.
What order do initials go in a monogram?
The untrained eye most often finds monogram logos downright confusing, as the letters are not listed in the typical order. The letters used in a design are determined by whether one wants to personalize an item using a single-letter monogram or a three-letter monogram.
Monogram rules for one letter
Whenever monogramming a gift using a single initial, the rule of thumb is to use the first letter of their first or last name. (Should the recipient have a nickname, using the primary letter from that is fine too.)
If you're planning on going a more traditional route, it is customary to monogram the person's last name regardless of whether they are single or married. Those looking for a trendier product often opt for the first initial. We recommend that the buyer consider the tastes of the person receiving the monogrammed item before deciding which they prefer.
Monogram rules for 3 letters
The traditional rules for monogramming three letters go as follows: first name initial, last name initial then middle name initial -- in that exact order.
Please note that these personalization guidelines vary slightly depending on whether the person is married or single.
How do I pick the right monogram style?
The first thing to do is confirm the correct order of the desired monogrammed initials. Once you've done that, it is time to choose the preferred style of the letters in terms of look, color and size.
Personalized monograms can be customized down to the last detail, so it is important to be specific. The most important things to decide are the sizing of the letters and whether you want them to be congruent or have the centered initial distinguished from the other two.
Monograms for newlyweds
Couples who are married (or even engaged) and share the same last name also follow the same rules for monogrammed lettering. The order goes as follows: first initial of one partner's name, shared last name initial and then the first initial of the other partner's first name.
In instances where the couple doesn't modify their last names, it is customary to incorporate only the first letters of the partner's last names in the comparable with lettering in a comparable size.